|By (author):||Bergman, S. Bear|
|Illustrated By:||Freedman-Lawson, Saul|
|Subject:||COMICS & GRAPHIC NOVELS / LGBT|
|QUEER & TRANS / Non-Fiction|
|SELF-HELP / Personal Growth / Happiness|
|SOCIAL SCIENCE / General|
|SOCIAL SCIENCE / LGBT Studies / General|
|Publisher:||Arsenal Pulp Press|
|Size:||10.00in x 7.00in|
|From The Publisher*|
S. Bear Bergman's illustrated guide to practical advice for the modern age, filtered through a queer lens.
As an author, educator, and public speaker, S. Bear Bergman has documented his experience as, among other things, a trans parent, with wit and aplomb. He also writes the advice column "Asking Bear," in which he answers crucial questions about how best to make our collective way through the world.
Featuring disarming illustrations by Saul Freedman-Lawson, Special Topics in Being a Human elaborates on "Asking Bear"'s premise: a gentle, witty, and insightful book of practical advice for the modern age. It offers Dad advice and Jewish bubbe wisdom, all filtered through a queer lens, to help you navigate some of the complexities of life - from how to make big decisions or make a good apology, to how to get someone's new name and pronouns right as quickly as possible, to how to gracefully navigate a breakup. With warmth and candor, Special Topics in Being a Human calls out social inequities and injustices in traditional advice-giving, validates your feelings, asks a lot of questions, and tries to help you be your best possible self with kindness, compassion, and humour.
S. Bear Bergman is the fantastic gay uncle you always wished you had, ready and able to help steer you - with gentle pragmatism and good humor - toward being a better, kinder, more compassionate and thoughtful human being. Heaven knows we could all use it. -Hanne Blank, author of Straight: The Surprisingly Short History of Heterosexuality
Special Topics in Being a Human is one of those rare books that is, indeed, essential reading for all humans. We all mess up. We all feel overwhelmed sometimes. We're all trying to do better at caring for ourselves and those around us with compassion, boundaries, justice, allyship and grace. S. Bear Bergman offers his trademark tender, thoughtful wisdom in such accessible, bite-sized, pieces that you can literally take them with you. He's the queer older sibling, mentor and bubbe you've always needed; get a copy for yourself and a copy for every other human in your life who's also out there trying to do their best. -Rabbi Danya Ruttenberg, author of Surprised By God and Nurture the Wow
For many years the insight, compassion, and humor of S. Bear Bergman's writing has been an ever-tender roadmap to my own becoming. I find it truly impossible to read anything he writes and not feel my own heart double in size, and Special Topics in Being Human is an especially transformative gift to our precious lives. Bergman's pages on "how to love" shook me like very few pieces of writing ever have. From beginning to end this book is a wildly thoughtful and beautifully honest guide to honoring ourselves, each other, and our world. -Andrea Gibson, author of Lord of the Butterflies
I've been receiving nothing but good life advice from S. Bear Bergman for just about thirty years now. With this book on your shelf, so can you. At every crossroad in your life, youâ€™ll have loving guidance from a smart, kind big brother, a fun and funny uncle, and a best-ever daddy. -Kate Bornstein, author of Gender Outlaw
Sweet, soulful, and deeply humane. Bear at his best. -Alison Bechdel, author of Fun Home
This book allows the reader to spend quality time with the internet's wise, friendly uncle-dad, who is here to teach you how to avoid making the same mistakes he did and how to be gentle with yourself when you inevitably make some new ones of your own. The charming illustrations by Saul Freedman-Lawson expand upon the text in charming and often hilarious ways, and Bergman's advice manages to be truthful and direct without ever feeling didactic, as he delivers even the toughest love with maximum compassion and maximum love for humans, in all our frailty and weirdness. -Jennifer Peepas, writer of CaptainAwkward.com
S. Bear Bergman and Saul Freedman-Lawson offer us a gentle guide to belonging. They challenge us to navigate our relationship to ourselves, our community at large, and the home we create with our friends and loved ones. -Archie Bongiovanni, author of A Quick And Easy Guide To They/Them Pronouns